不要看一个人说什么，要看ta做什么；不要只看ta做什么，更要揣摩、了解ta内心真实的一些想法。ta的动机，配合ta生长与存在的一个环境，看懂ta的抱负、追求……ta的弱点，等等。专注在意识和思想的层面。
- Don’t just look at what a person says, but also at what they do; don’t just look at what they do, but also try to understand their true inner thoughts. Their motives, combined with the environment in which they grow and exist, understand their aspirations, pursuits… their weaknesses, etc. Focus on the level of consciousness and thought.