社会戾气的减少方法|Method of reducing social malice

通俗地讲,社会戾气与日增多的根本原因,是:环境外在剥削和人性内在忍耐的某平衡点,被打破、不断模糊。

  • In plain words, the fundamental reason for the increasing social malice is: a balance point between external exploitation of environment and internal tolerance of human nature has been broken and blurred.

外在剥削的力道——温水煮青蛙,变得厉害;内在忍耐的水准——休养生息,逐渐开始降低。不再是“剥削就一味忍让”,“忍让就停止剥削”;无人想要牺牲自己的利益,于是两派火拼,非死即伤便是必然的结果。

  • The force of external exploitation – boiling frogs in warm water – has become severe; the level of internal tolerance – recuperating – has gradually begun to decline. It is “no longer tolerate when exploited” or “stop exploiting when tolerated”; no one wants to sacrifice their own interests, so a fierce fight between the two sides, and death or injury is the inevitable result.

而这样火拼死伤的​例子,找不到应变方法,只会积重难返、愈演愈烈!

  • And such examples of death and injury from fighting, without finding a way to cope, will only become more and more serious and intense!

方法——各:退一步、海阔天空。

  • Method – each: take a step back and broaden horizons.

附:被剥削,理应不该退让;没办法,这就是目前一整个世界的现实。而打破现实,需要走,且仅有唯一的那条道路可供选择。所以:父母要想自己的后代幸福快乐,一开始就得让ta们知道这个世界最最真实的样子。让ta们有得选!不仅仅只做好退让的心理准备;还要让ta们知道:不要再继续选择站在剥削的一方!

  • Note: Those who are exploited should not have to step back; but there is no way, this is the reality of the whole world at present. And to break the reality, there is only one path to choose from. So: if parents want their offspring to be happy, they should let them know the most real state of the world from the beginning. Let them have a choice! Not only be mentally prepared to step back; but also let them know: do not continue to choose to stand on the side of exploitation!